03-19-2011, 12:43 PM
Sorry mate, it's your feelings and needs that are being denied here. Sometimes you have to put yourself first and not be frustrated, it will destroy any chance the two of you have anyway. We all know of guys who cheat on the side, gay straight, whatever, is this what you want to happen? I think you have already come to a conclusion, it's a question of guilt and not wanting to hurt. Best of luck, take care.