Just wondering what everyone's ideal length of time for sex is. By sex, I mean the actual "drive to orgasm" process not including foreplay or teasing.
I'd say that with some moderate foreplay sex lasting for about 3 minutes would be ideal. Certainly no less than two and no more than five.
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Minutes? o.O
I mean come on. I'm all for not dragging sex out and just enjoying it, but even then it usually takes at least 10-15 minutes for me...
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it alll depends everyones sex organs are different
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I voted for 6+ but ideally I would like it to last as long I can physically last...bro. I really don't understand your thought process on this, why would anyone want sex of any kind to last under 6 minutes.
Shit if i could I'd study that trantric stuff and make it last like 14 days.
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I'd expect a good 30+ minutes.
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lol, I take a long time. I knew a guy that lasted over an hour once... he was normally a bottom though so he didnt really like it that much, just wanted to try it....
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Hmmm..under six minutes? Never even considered that would be an option. Even my "quickies" lasted much longer than that. Though I am versatile I am primarily a top and I always make sure my partner has an orgasm before I do...it is the polite and decent thing to do. As a bottom I insist on an orgasm...a few guys wanted to use my ass as a masturbation tool and they took under six minutes but I wouldnt' call that sex.....and I would never have anything to do with them again.
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Never had sex yet but i would imagine that 6 minutes or more would make me sore afterwards. id prefer it that way rather than it just passing in a blink of an eye though. Id wanna think of it as something to enjoy all through out. It isnt a race, after all.
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I think sponteneity is best. With my last boyfreind we always used to schedule it for saturaday nights.
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