My husband does not get horny anymore, please help!!!

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HI guys! I'm Ryan. I've had a big problem in my sex life, I don't know what to do. Please give me some serious advices if you can. I really appreciate that. Here is my story:

I'm 30 years old, he's 45 years old. We've been married more than 2 years. My sex life is not so good, just once a month when I push him to have sex ( it's killing me, cause I'm a horny boy, I need sex everyday), he doesn't want me to hold his dick or suck it. I talked to him about that problem, and he said he's not horny any more, he didn't know why, he thought maybe he's old and he's embarrassed because he's fat (but he's not that fat, he's a big boy). I told him I love him I love everything of his, I don't mind he's old or fat, but it didn't work. So I have to masturbate alone by myself everyday. I've thought about having an affair but I can't, I love him, I don't want to cheat on him, I'm faithful. It's killing me now. I don't know what to do anymore. I know that he's love me so much, I trust him

Please help me if you have any advices to get him horny again, I would really appreciate.

Ryan!

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Two things spring to mind...
1) You two need counselling, and maybe your partner needs to talk to his doctor about his lack of sex drive. You need to have a discussion with him about it. It's a question of health, and he shouldn't feel unhappy about being overweight, but maybe it is depressing him. He might have a form of depression that needs treatment, which doesn't make him feel lovable or horny.

2) You're probably not going to like this, but is he cheating on you? Is there any chance, since you are in an open relationship, that he's getting sex from elsewhere and doesn't like it so much with you, anymore? Has it got boring? Again, something that will need a discussion between you. The fact that you are completely devoted to him, doesn't mean he acts the same way, does it? Or do you trust him completely?

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Thank you so much for giving me advices. I talked to him a lot about what happened in our sex life. By himself he didn't know why, he wanted to use viagra, but I stopped him, it's not good for his health. He's to shy to see a doctor about his problem. I'm researching what food can make people get horny again but still hopeless.

I completely trust him. I'm a hundred percent sure he never cheat on me. He always say I'm sexy and he's too fat, but I always tell him he's not fat, I love the way he is. That's worried me the most. I don't know how to make him stop thinking that way.