08-03-2011, 03:22 AM
Gabbyboy Wrote:we have 1 gay club thats very popular in our country, lots of cute guys there, unfortunately they only like same cute guys :/ being gay is hard >___>
You re wrong and right at the same time here.
It 's true that bar and club can make many people feel imitated very easy as physical attraction is the easiest thing to be noticed. However, as a person who has many experience with bar and club scene, I found that confidence is something way more sexy.
I found myself more into confident guys who can start a conversation with strangers ( and have big smile too ). As on the dance floor, I admire guys who dare to dance like no one is watching.
If you don't believe then here is the story. I went to a gay club with a straight guy friend :biggrin: I am a pretty ok dancer myself and I can say that I am a little bit more physically attractive than my friend. But man, when he started dancing, guys started to get hooked on him :biggrin: In the end, he got more like tons of numbers while I only got one :biggrin: So I suggest you to work on some move on the dance floor, maybe that will help. Watch youtube for the shuffle and learn that one to show off!!