friend problem

[jaden3205]

Okay so I have this really horny guy friend who I need help figuring out. He invites me over tonight after his parents leave for the night. We start drinking and he keeps telling me that he is horny and is gunna invite some girls over, which he never does. He kept making up excuses on why he wasnt. He knew I was coming and wore no shirt with this sleevless hoodie that he kept unzippered revealing his body. He then continued to talk about how bored and horny he was and how he loved getting his dick sucked. I then continued to tell him to invite some girls over but yet again he kept making excuses up. We went to his room and continued drinking and I really felt like he wanted to do something sexual with me because he kept talking about how bored and horny he was. Unfortunately I was too shy to hint at anything to him because I feared I read him the wrong way, so after a while I just left. Do any of you think that he really wanted to do something with me? If so, what should I have done to hint at it or what can I do next time? I really think he is attractive and stuff and he wasnt even that drunk when he was hinting all this at me. I just want to know also, if there is any attraction there, did I screw it all up tonight? Help is def needed! Thank you

[Cardiganwearer]

This sounds exactly like someone I knew as a student and others I've encountered since.

It turns out that like many straight guys they get randy and consider they're doing you a favour by trying to get you to give them a blow job. They'll never actually initiate it, because, of course, they're straight and they need the deniability.

I don't mind giving gratuitous blow jobs, what pisses me off is the contrived deniability and the idea that they are doing you a favour.

What you do in this situation is up to you but if actually engaging leaves you feeling good about yourself you can be sure that once you reflect on it that feeling soon dissipates. Best thing is to try not to think about it too deeply.mile:

[jaden3205]

Oh and p.s. he doesnt know Im gay so thats what made it a little more confusing. Like at least if he knew, then he would have deffinately hit on me. But it was the fact that he doesnt know which is making me question it so much.

[Cardiganwearer]

Doesn't know you're gay? If you haven't already, then ignore everything I said above.

[SlipknotRlZZ]

Things could go the wrong way here. I'd advise you not to act upon this, thigs could really get shitty. So..unless he initiates it, just ignore his hints. :/