What are some definite signs/ways to know if you're gay?

[bariuke]

I used to feel the exact same way as you, and it was weird at first, but after I relaxed, seriously thought of the possibility of being gay, and accepted it, I found, to my surprise, that my feelings toward guys was changing. Once I started thinking about guys in romantic, non-sexual ways, and liking it, I was totally sure of my gayness.

You think you wouldn't like kissing a guy? Try having sex with a guy, and in the heat of the moment when he moves in to kiss you, you may find yourself kissing him back.

The idea is to accept the feelings and tell yourself it's okay, then give it a try, you may like it.