lost my virginity now i'm bleeding...

[dfiant]

I'm not sure about the USA, although I suspect it similar to Australia, anyone over 14 years old can visit a GP without parental permission and supervision and the doctor cannot discuss your consultation with anyone....even your parents.

[East]

well the problem with going to the doctor is that i'm only 17 and my mom always insists on sitting in on all of my doctors appointments and never gives me alone to talk to the doctors because she "wants to know whats going on" and shes kind of a control freak. i don't even know if i'm legally allowed to talk to a doctor by myself. i should probably be honest with my doctor but i REALLY don't want my mom to know that i'm having sex with guys.

Does she know you are gay? I am not sure what the legal statutes are and what kind of privacy there is when dealing with someone under the age of 18.

Can you maybe tell her you need to go because you are bleeding but do not mention sex and then ask your doctor to treat you confidentially...tell him you were afraid to even come to him because of the fear of it not being private?

You could also maybe try going to a clinic or even calling a gay center center in LA that can maybe give you a medical referral?

[damon]

Does she know you are gay? I am not sure what the legal statutes are and what kind of privacy there is when dealing with someone under the age of 18.

Can you maybe tell her you need to go because you are bleeding but do not mention sex and then ask your doctor to treat you confidentially...tell him you were afraid to even come to him because of the fear of it not being private?

You could also maybe try going to a clinic or even calling a gay center center in LA that can maybe give you a medical referral?

Good ideas

[nicholasanthony]

i'm just gonna have to look into my options and see what i can do. im gonna wash it all out down there and take a long bath to soak it too and if it's not getting any better by tomorrow i'm gonna go to the doc

[damon]

i'm just gonna have to look into my options and see what i can do. im gonna wash it all out down there and take a long bath to soak it too and if it's not getting any better by tomorrow i'm gonna go to the doc

oh no boy, dont bathe, how if it is infected, just lie in bed to have a rest, drink more water, and go to see a doc today,come on.....dont delay it.

[fenris]

Fenris looks like a professor, :biggrin:

:biggrin::biggrin: for fenris that is allowed, he learned about health and natural healing since 28 years. has written a internet-natural-healing site with more then 2000 pages, that means druid-level 5 in lord-of-the-rings

[damon]

:biggrin::biggrin: for fenris that is allowed, he learned about health and natural healing since 28 years. has written a internet-natural-healing site with more then 2000 pages, that means druid-level 5 in lord-of-the-rings

haha, you must be Fenris's Mr RIGHT , how beatific you are, envying , i dont know how to do, in CHina, most gays choose marriage to please parents and relatives, if you older than 28 years old, every one know you will ask you when to marry ,i am crazy with these askes.....

[dfiant]

If you are going to have a bath, add some household/table salt to your bath, salt is a natural disinfectant and was recommended to me after rectal surgery.

Also use a salt wash after a bowel movement, it will help with infection, ease the discomfort, but I think it will just delay the inevitable, you need to see a doctor.

[damon]

who can teach me how to load a new thread ?

[damon]

:biggrin:i am a fresh man here