online dating doesn't work for me either.
lots people are just HIPPO - hot in profile picture only.
fake pictures and stats are everywhere.
many are not serious.
we better join some local groups
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Well I can vouch that it's possible to find the right one online. We met via a chat site in 2000, met in real life early 2000, been living together since mid 2000, and married since 2006. So nearly 12 years together froma chance encounter in a chat room.
It can happen anywhere. I was thoroughly despondant of ever finding Mr Right back then, and just when I'd given up completely and decided that I was destined to be a "confirmed batchelor" for the rest of my life, I met him. Don't close off any avenues. Who knows, you may meet him in Waitrose, a chat room, or on holiday. Just be ready for when you do.
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Maybe put a status of looking for friendship first then relationship. Then maybe they wouldn't ask you to do those things. I think it is possible to find someone, but I like meetups or in person events better.
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