11-15-2011, 07:22 AM
Hi, ViolettaAlexis. Welcome to GS! mile:
When you think of a relationship, what do you ideally want? Is your current relationship there or have the potential to get there? You mention a polyamorous relationship, so I'm curious if this is just for now or is this what you feel like you ultimately need?
What has happened in your past relationships with women? Did you go through something similar and then desire to be with men? I guess, I'm wondering if there is a pattern of behavior after being in a relationship for a while that you need to be aware of?
How did you and your current bf meet? Are you living together? I understand that you love him, but maybe your love for him has evolved more into a friendship-love?
I think you have soul searched and you seem very aware of yourself. It's difficult when the answers may hurt someone we love. Hang in there, you need to give yourself time to work though this and as James has said, you have to be true to yourself.
When you think of a relationship, what do you ideally want? Is your current relationship there or have the potential to get there? You mention a polyamorous relationship, so I'm curious if this is just for now or is this what you feel like you ultimately need?
What has happened in your past relationships with women? Did you go through something similar and then desire to be with men? I guess, I'm wondering if there is a pattern of behavior after being in a relationship for a while that you need to be aware of?
How did you and your current bf meet? Are you living together? I understand that you love him, but maybe your love for him has evolved more into a friendship-love?
I think you have soul searched and you seem very aware of yourself. It's difficult when the answers may hurt someone we love. Hang in there, you need to give yourself time to work though this and as James has said, you have to be true to yourself.