Age

[princealbertofb]

3 and 1/2 or 13 and 1/2??? Is that a typo?

[Genersis]

Within the next five years hopefully....

[nullnaught]

Within the next five years hopefully....

your breaking my heart!

[jguay]

I was 14....had a few drinks with my best friend and I sucked him and he returned the favor. Been hooked since.

[Joker]

Christ you were all early bloomers weren't you

I was 18 before i even kissed a guy, untouched by human hand before then! Soon caught up though

[AirBorn]

3 and 1/2 or 13 and 1/2??? Is that a typo?

Yea, was that a typo?

[beast]

My first sexual encounter was with another boy we were both 7.

[ZackT]

I haven't had any physical relations with boys.

I lost my virginity at age 19 to a girl I would end up dating for just over 6 months

[Pix]

I'm curious about the boys who said they had sex so young. Did you have an erection?

It also occurs to me that there may be a boy out there who may include something we did as sex (this is why in my original answer on this thread I said "meaningful manner" in case this ever came up). Actually more than one because when I was playing almost exclusively with boys (from very late 6-10) we looked at each other naked and a few times we'd watch each other pee. But there was almost no touching, and I don't consider it sex anymore than I consider a child looking under a rock to be sex (it's just curiosity and exploring the world, just like us--or at least me--looking at the naked bodies of boys and I think them of me), or people at a nudist camp who hug, or a caretaker bathing a small child. There was no erotic element or intent with me so I don't see it as sex.

Even the one incident that is arguably sexual wasn't the least bit erotic to me, and I'm pretty sure not to him, either. A 7-year-old pushed me really hard to put my mouth over his penis and "count to a hundred," and it took some convincing before I did. But even then neither he nor I moved at all (ie to say, I did not blow). Though he did look up when I did he showed no other sign (like an erection) that would suggest he was getting off on it. Ok, when I stopped he said he was only at 60 and after a minute of arguing I went back and counted to hundred again from 60 and then after that I refused anymore, so he wanted me to continue which suggests he was enjoying the experience (though I don't see how). However, in the years that followed he never pushed me for it again, so I have my doubts that it was an erotic experience for him.

In retrospect I'm hoping he simply saw a porn mag of a blowjob (it couldn't be a movie or live action because then he'd have known to have me move my head) and simply wanted to try it out of curiosity and because he wanted to feel more grown up (similar to my playing dress up and wanting to play with makeup). Though a troubling memory (merely puzzling at the time as I was far too naive to think of this then) is that I remembered looking at his living room window to see if anyone was watching before I started and found it strange that the curtains were closed (which normally wasn't the case), and in retrospect I wonder if the boy hadn't been put up to it with someone recording us or jerking off to us from behind the curtain. :frown:

In any case, I don't consider this meaningful sexual experimentation as there was no erotic element or intent or understanding in me. Perhaps it was different for him, or perhaps one of my guesses above is right and it was something other than eroticism motivating him.

I'm curious...do you think he remembers it as having sex? If so, what is male sexuality like back when you're like 4-8? :confused:

[Aester]

Heh... the only step I've taken was my first kiss at age of 11. I was really ignorant of what happened and didn't understand the procedures, we were together for 2 months, and I just thought it as a close friendship. She left me, I don't know why, I wasn't upset even as I didn't understand what a relation was about.

After it... I've been untouched, ever since my Junior high school year I've been really insecure about my self and was bullied as fat and chunky, and later on in the mens locker room as mini penis, which still has scared me...