Age

[fenris]

I was 5 ( honestly )... and I remember that my mother caught me as I was 7 years old with a much older boy.... later that day she asked me if he had forced me or something bad like that and I said "no, I liked it.. it was great" :redface:

[dfiant]

I'm curious about the boys who said they had sex so young. Did you have an erection?

From my own personal experience, by the age of 11 I was past the look and touch stage, which I did do at an earlier age. At the age 11 it was blow jobs, and I was about 12 when I had my first full experience when a boy that I had a crush on had a sleep over (All weekend every weekend for months), and climbed into my bed in the middle of the night.

Boys are capable of getting an erection from the day they are born, but it is not always sex that can cause an erection. Anxitey, exitement, loose clothing, bowel movements can all reult in an erection in young boys.

[AlephNull]

I lost my man-on-man virginity when a guy offered me lots food to bottom for him (I was desperate and short on cash). It was the first time I really explored the side of me that had homosexual tendencies. Before then I had never really fantasized about men. After that they were all I could think about.

[nullnaught]

Yea, was that a typo?

No typo. It's the truth.

[azulai]

Christ you were all early bloomers weren't you

I was 18 before i even kissed a guy, untouched by human hand before then! Soon caught up though

I'm another late bloomer! I was untouched until 20 when I got my first kiss! :biggrin:
Catching up has been pretty damn fun!

[nullnaught]

3 and 1/2 or 13 and 1/2??? Is that a typo?

no 3.5 not a typo at all. I have a good memory, is all. If more people remembered that far back, perhaps such admitions would be a lot more typical.

[BYoNexus]

Still waiting here... :p

[ObnoxiousKid]

I'm curious about the boys who said they had sex so young. Did you have an erection?

It also occurs to me that there may be a boy out there who may include something we did as sex (this is why in my original answer on this thread I said "meaningful manner" in case this ever came up). Actually more than one because when I was playing almost exclusively with boys (from very late 6-10) we looked at each other naked and a few times we'd watch each other pee. But there was almost no touching, and I don't consider it sex anymore than I consider a child looking under a rock to be sex (it's just curiosity and exploring the world, just like us--or at least me--looking at the naked bodies of boys and I think them of me), or people at a nudist camp who hug, or a caretaker bathing a small child. There was no erotic element or intent with me so I don't see it as sex.

Even the one incident that is arguably sexual wasn't the least bit erotic to me, and I'm pretty sure not to him, either. A 7-year-old pushed me really hard to put my mouth over his penis and "count to a hundred," and it took some convincing before I did. But even then neither he nor I moved at all (ie to say, I did not blow). Though he did look up when I did he showed no other sign (like an erection) that would suggest he was getting off on it. Ok, when I stopped he said he was only at 60 and after a minute of arguing I went back and counted to hundred again from 60 and then after that I refused anymore, so he wanted me to continue which suggests he was enjoying the experience (though I don't see how). However, in the years that followed he never pushed me for it again, so I have my doubts that it was an erotic experience for him.

In retrospect I'm hoping he simply saw a porn mag of a blowjob (it couldn't be a movie or live action because then he'd have known to have me move my head) and simply wanted to try it out of curiosity and because he wanted to feel more grown up (similar to my playing dress up and wanting to play with makeup). Though a troubling memory (merely puzzling at the time as I was far too naive to think of this then) is that I remembered looking at his living room window to see if anyone was watching before I started and found it strange that the curtains were closed (which normally wasn't the case), and in retrospect I wonder if the boy hadn't been put up to it with someone recording us or jerking off to us from behind the curtain. :frown:

In any case, I don't consider this meaningful sexual experimentation as there was no erotic element or intent or understanding in me. Perhaps it was different for him, or perhaps one of my guesses above is right and it was something other than eroticism motivating him.

I'm curious...do you think he remembers it as having sex? If so, what is male sexuality like back when you're like 4-8? :confused:

I could get an erection at like 3

[Moregelen]

Hmm.. uh, I'm guessing, but I think I was 12 and he was 13, but it was only really along the lines of mutal-masturbation out of curiosity at the time. Nothing further than that with anyone, though I can tell you that I had a crush on the guy (my best friend at the time) all the way up until my Junior year in High School. We kinda had a falling out over the 'party scenes' he started getting into; I didn't really judge him over the social drugs he started doing (at the time I was still rather enamored with him), but when he started trying to get me to do them too... Nothing more than that though, and I can honestly say I'd totally trade those experiences for even just a proper kiss. It was fun, but had so little meaning behind it.. meh. Thinking about this is going to make me feel lonely.

[darrenmichael]

Still waiting here... :p

Would you mind sharing why? Just curious if you are waiting for a reason or if you are looking for your first? If the latter than what's holding you back?!