First Sex Toy Before First Sex Experience?

[Anonymous]

I was considering purchasing a few sex toys.
I know what i am looking for and will read up more on the toys i'm interested in when i get around to buying one.

My question is, as i'm a virgin,should i wait till after my first experience before buying any sex toys?

Would any of you say using sex toys before your first experience can make it less enjoyable?

While i originally wanted to wait, i have found my urges for more sexual experiences and experimenting getting stronger.
I'm not the kind of guy for one night stands, nor am i social enough for them, so it could be some time till anything happens in the losing virginity department.
So should i just go ahead with sex toys? Or try to wait for at least a little longer?

Also, i'm posting this anonymously because...well...i'm easily embarrassed.:redface:

[LateBloomer]

Generally speaking, masturbation is a good way to get to know your body, how it works and what you like.

To that end, a sex toy or two might enhance your masturbation.

But I offer one word of caution: Masturbation is a normal and desirable COMPONENT of a full sexual diet.

In other words, sex is best enjoyed with a real partner. Don't let your masturbation and toys become a *surrogate* for the fuller experience of partnered sex. Let it be more like a side dish to the main course.

Believe me, I nourished myself on side dishes for too long and never got around to the main course until much later.

Enjoy.

[iPromise]

lol latebloomer I can't help but laugh how you put that into perspective. "side dishes" "main course" lol, I'll never look at thanksgiving the same again!

[LateBloomer]

lol latebloomer I can't help but laugh how you put that into perspective. "side dishes" "main course" lol, I'll never look at thanksgiving the same again!

Let's just say I'm a very "hungry" man because I starved myself for so long.

[iPromise]

LOL if you don't mind me asking, how long is "long"?

[LateBloomer]

LOL if you don't mind me asking, how long is "long"?

I was 35 when I was with my first woman.
First guy at 42.

Lots of experience with masturbation.

[iPromise]

ahh, we are totally going off topic. so I'll end it there. Sorry OP : (

[chillythoughts]

Go for the sex toys I actually got one on order. but waiting for a partner? who knows when thatll happen right? could be tomorrow or a year down the road. for me, Im focusing on my career so I have no time for a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Generally speaking, masturbation is a good way to get to know your body, how it works and what you like.

To that end, a sex toy or two might enhance your masturbation.

But I offer one word of caution: Masturbation is a normal and desirable COMPONENT of a full sexual diet.

In other words, sex is best enjoyed with a real partner. Don't let your masturbation and toys become a *surrogate* for the fuller experience of partnered sex. Let it be more like a side dish to the main course.

Believe me, I nourished myself on side dishes for too long and never got around to the main course until much later.

Enjoy.

Oh trust me, i'm in no way using this as a long term substitute for sexual intimacy.
I plan to get round to that when i find someone i would like to pursue a relationship with.
Which could be a while. The future is unpredictable after all.:redface:

Go for the sex toys I actually got one on order. but waiting for a partner? who knows when thatll happen right? could be tomorrow or a year down the road. for me, Im focusing on my career so I have no time for a relationship.

Would your advice change if i said i have my eye on someone?
Due to several factors a relationship is unlikely, but i sure have fallen for a guy.:redface:
I guess what i'm trying to say is, is hope a good reason to postpone your advice?

[chillythoughts]

Would your advice change if i said i have my eye on someone?
Due to several factors a relationship is unlikely, but i sure have fallen for a guy.:redface:
I guess what i'm trying to say is, is hope a good reason to postpone your advice?

no, dont postpone my advice cus what if this relationship never happens? what if he doesnt have the same feelings towards you? but I still wish you best of luck with this guy!