I say I'm a lesbian and for the most part its true but there is this one guy who I would always go back to. does that make me a liar or am i right to just say yeah i'm a lesbian?
I say I'm a lesbian but...
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Hey twisted love. I see you have been with us since Oct. but havnt posted much, so welcome back! Its good to see more females in here.
![]() We don't like to put labels on anyone, but I would say that you are bi but prefer to be with a woman vs. a man. I think if you are gay or lezbian you only want to be with the same sex. Either way love is love. Who really needs a label? Again welcome back, I hope to see more of you.
If you feel like a lesbian who cares if you like ( or whatever ) ONE guy.... maybe you are a bit bi but for my opinion it is not worth to think about it.
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If he's the ONLY guy you've ever felt that way about, and you don't crush on any other guys, then claiming to be lesbian (even if it's more 90% true than 100% true, which I figure is true for the vast majority of people who claim a heterosexual or homosexual orientation) seems ok. This is especially true if you don't particularly feel lust for him (though you may want to sexually please him all the same, I know how that is).
And labels should be useful, not confining. TwistedLove Wrote:I say I'm a lesbian and for the most part its true but there is this one guy who I would always go back to. does that make me a liar or am i right to just say yeah i'm a lesbian? I am actually bi, but I call myself gay because I have only looked for relationships with guys since I came out. I agree with others here. I think the label part is only for convenience. If you feel dishonest about calling yourself a lesbian, than call yourself bi, if that makes you feel more honest. I think being true to yourself so you don't feel like you are hiding anything or telling a lie that is the most important thing. I think most people who have come out would agree that the honesty thing was a big part of it for them, even if there were other factors. Good luck ![]()
Thanks guys
![]() TwistedLove Wrote:I say I'm a lesbian and for the most part its true but there is this one guy who I would always go back to. does that make me a liar or am i right to just say yeah i'm a lesbian? You are a sexual female human being, love knows no boundaries so don't limit yourself, just be happy in your own skin ![]()
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