does man flu exsist ? i heard on the radio yesterday that when men get flu
it takes them ages to get rid of it and they feel like they are dying lol .
apparently when women get the flu they cope better with it than men , with women the estrogen helps fight the immune system quicker then testosterone in men what are your thoughts on this subject love to hear.
maria

The Home Secretary, Jacqui Smith, has published a list of 16 individuals that she has banned from entering Britain "in order to make clear what behaviour would not be tolerated in the UK."

The list includes two members of the horrible Phelps family (Fred Waldron Phelps Sr and Shirley Phelps-Roper of Westboro Baptist Church infamy), Abdullah Qadri al-Ahdal, Yunis al-Astal, Samir al-Quntar, Stephen Donald Black, Wadgy Abd el-Hamied Mohamed Ghoneim, Erich Gliebe, Mike Guzovsky, Safwat Hijazi, Nasr Javed, Abdul Ali Musa (previously Clarence Reams), Artur Ryno, Amir Siddique, Pavel Skachevsky and Michael Alan Weiner (aka Michael Savage).

Of course, not all these people have made statements about homosexuality.

So Carol Ann Duffy is to be the Poet Laureate for the next ten year appointment.

Many congratulations to her. She breaks with tradition on a number of counts being the first lesbian, the first woman (that would account for the first one then ) and the first Scot to hold the post.



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A newly published report has concluded that primary and secondary-aged school pupils should have an entitlement to compulsory Sex and Relationship lessons in schools.

Quote:
"Compulsory sex and relationships lessons for 11-year-old children are to include classroom discussions on gay unions and civil partnerships. Secondary pupils will learn about contraception and sexually transmitted infections (STIs), while primary school children will learn about their bodies and friendships, a review of sex education has concluded.

The review was ordered in October after ministers announced that sex and relationships education (SRE) lessons should be made compulsory to help primary and secondary pupils to “navigate the complexities of modern life” and to ensure that children learnt their sex education from the classroom, not the playground."

It is 10 years since David Copeland planted nail bombs in Brixton, the East End and Soho, spreading destruction and fear. For those who felt the full force of his prejudices, life would never be the same again.....

I won't copy and paste the whole article so here is the link:

London nail bombs: The two weeks that shattered the capital - Crime, UK - The Independent





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I've just been reading more horrific tales of treatment of our gay brothers in Iraq. There seems to have been something of a purge on gay men in recent times, spurred by families, society in general and religious dogma in particular. Whilst I was never a supporter of the invasion I had no idea that things could turn out to be this dreadful - the torture and murder of increasing numbers of gay men while the authorities look the other way. Spread the news. Tell everyone how proud we are to have brought western democracy to the people of Iraq. What an indictment that gay men were actually safer under Sadam!! :mad: :mad: :mad:

BBC NEWS | UK | Fears over Iraq gay killing spate

Hot Topics: Gay Iraqis Facing Horrific Torture

I've only just noticed this, so apologies for the last minute announcement. Now I'm trying to work out if I can afford the train fare ...

A conference is being held at the Emmanuel Centre in Marsham Street, central London tomorrow (Saturday) by the Anglican Mainstream Organisation. This event will have "a special focus on how religious professionals and friends/relatives can respond biblically and pastorally to those struggling with unwanted SSA (same-sex attraction)".
According to the organisation, the conference is "ideal for clergy, rabbis, psychologists, therapists, educators and others concerned about the plethora of sexual issues confronting us in today’s society, including mentoring the sexually broken, the sexualisation of culture, pornography, the Bible and sex, and marriage, the family and sex".

There will be a protest held outside the conference.25 April 2009
Time:13:00 - 15:00
Location:Emmanuel Centre
Street:9-23 Marsham Street
Town/City:London, United Kingdom

Surely it would be far better for people struggling with issues surrounding sexuality to receive more useful help than the torture that accompanies the kind of useless therapy being advocated by these dinosaurs. As usual they seem to be confusing all sorts of unrelated issues and pretending that we are in need of therapy. My coming-out was the beginning of being sexually mended, not broken as the conference blurb insultingly suggests! :mad:

I hope to see some of you there!

[img2=left]http://www.gayspeak.com/forum/images/news/gaypenguins.jpg[/img2]A children's book about two male penguins who adopt a baby chick is the book most Americans want banned, according to the American Library Association (ALA).

And Tango Makes Three by Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell has been slammed as anti-family, anti-religion and pro-gay.

The top ten list features the most challenged titles of 2008 and has been running for 20 years.

Deborah Caldwell-Stone, deputy director of the ALA's office for intellectual freedom, told the Guardian: "Books that address same-sex parenting, or same-sex relationships, are particularly prone to challenges in the US.

"In the case of And Tango Makes Three, there are many parents who believe it inappropriate to teach children anything at all about homosexual relationships, even in the form of a picture book about a true story."

Phillip Pullman's His Dark Materials trilogy rose to second place over its violent scenes and religious viewpoint, while The Kite Runner, by Khaleed Hosseini, which features a 12-year-old boy being raped entered the list for the first time after being removed from some library shelves.

The books dropping out of this year's list included Mark Twain's The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn (criticised for racism), Alice Walker's The Color Purple (challenged for sexual content, homosexual content and offensive language) and Maya Angelou's I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings (sexual content).

Ms Caldwell-Stone said: "While not every book is right for each reader, every reader has the right to choose reading materials for themselves and their families and should be able to find those materials in libraries, classrooms, and bookstores.

"Our goal is to protect one of our most precious fundamental rights - our freedom to read."

The ALA celebrates Banned Books Week every year in the last week of September.

[img2=left]http://www.gayspeak.com/forum/images/news/matthewmitcham2009.jpg[/img2]Matthew Mitcham, the Australian diver who won the ten-metre platform gold medal at the Beijing Olympics, has said he believes he lost sponsorship deals due to being openly gay.

According to the Daily Telegraph, he said: "I haven't experienced any homophobia in sport but I'm hoping I'm not experiencing any in the corporate world because I haven't had any companies rushing to sponsor me," he said.

"It took me a very long time to secure any form of sponsorship after the Olympics, and that's still my only sponsorship."

Mitcham, 20, beat 14-year-old Brit Tom Daley to make history by receiving the highest mark for an individual dive at an Olympic Games.

He came out in a newspaper interview shortly before the Games began and has since become something of a gay role model.

When asked how he felt on the responsibility, he said: "As soon as anybody looks up to you, you automatically become a role model whether you choose to be or not, and you can either embrace it or not.

"I choose to embrace it and try to be the best role model I can be."

Mitcham was previously a trampolining champion before being spotted by a coach at a pool who thought he had potential to succeed at diving.

He battled depression and anxiety, taking a year-long break before returning to the sport to claim gold.

In February, he was named as one of three new ambassadors for the Australian government’s men’s health policy.

[img2=left]http://www.gayspeak.com/forum/images/news/gaymilitary.jpg[/img2]US defence secretary Robert Gates has suggested that repealing the ban on gays and lesbians serving openly in the military could take years - and implied it might not happen at all.

Speaking at the Army War College yesterday, he urged a cautious approach over the issue, saying: ""If we do it, it’s important that we do it right, and very carefully.’’

When asked by an officer about the policy, he said it was a "complex and difficult problem".

Gates also cited the example of racial integration in the 1940s, saying that it took five years for be completed.

He said that gauging opinion on the issue was a particular problem: "To get people’s real feelings about it, you have to have almost a one-on-one private conversation.

"I think it’s very difficult for people to speak in front of their peers about this issue.’’

Gates reiterated President Barack Obama's support for changing the law, saying: "The president has made it clear where he wants to go."

The 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell' policy was introduced in 1994 and allows gay men and women to serve in the military as long as they keep their sexual orientation secret and do not engage in any homosexual acts.

President Clinton found himself embroiled in a fight with Congress over gays in the military soon after he moved into the White House in 1993.

As a Presidential candidate he had promised to allow gays to serve, but when he took office he was forced to accept the present policy in the face of military and Congressional opposition.

Many military officials, including General John Shalikashvili, chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff under President Clinton, now believe that gays should be allowed to serve openly.

The current chairman, Admiral Mike Mullen, said an interview after his December meeting with Barack Obama in Chicago:

"He's been pretty clear that he wants to address this issue.

"I am certainly mindful that at some point in time it could come."

According to the Servicemembers Legal Defence Network, nearly 12,500 servicemen and women have been discharged under it since its implementation.

It is estimated that up to 45,000 Americans have been discouraged from joining or remaining in the armed forces.