06-19-2017, 04:46 AM
Hello,
Um I've recently been going on Grindr mostly so I can get a date; I've never been on a date and my bestfriend suggested this might be a good place to find one or just to make more friends in the gay community as well.
My Grindr experience has mostly been Bots and occasionally men who just want sex. I kind of already knew that Grindr is mostly a hookup app, but I'm not giving away my V-card to some stranger. So results have been rather lackluster.
Moving on... When someone tries to text me, I'm not quite sure what to say. I usually just say "Hi, what are some of your interests?" Either they don't text back or they answers me. . . OK, so when they actually reply back with an answer, now what?? Should I immediately just ask them if they want to have a date or hangout? It doesn't make sense to me to ask any more questions. Isn't the goal of being on Grindr to meet with that person to see if you might like that person irl? Ugh, I don't know.
Look man, I'm just an introverted person and I keep my circle small. I rarely talk to strangers and I don't always know what to say to them.
So I will greatly appreciate any advice here. Ask me questions if y'all want, too. I'm an openbook.
Um I've recently been going on Grindr mostly so I can get a date; I've never been on a date and my bestfriend suggested this might be a good place to find one or just to make more friends in the gay community as well.
My Grindr experience has mostly been Bots and occasionally men who just want sex. I kind of already knew that Grindr is mostly a hookup app, but I'm not giving away my V-card to some stranger. So results have been rather lackluster.
Moving on... When someone tries to text me, I'm not quite sure what to say. I usually just say "Hi, what are some of your interests?" Either they don't text back or they answers me. . . OK, so when they actually reply back with an answer, now what?? Should I immediately just ask them if they want to have a date or hangout? It doesn't make sense to me to ask any more questions. Isn't the goal of being on Grindr to meet with that person to see if you might like that person irl? Ugh, I don't know.
Look man, I'm just an introverted person and I keep my circle small. I rarely talk to strangers and I don't always know what to say to them.
So I will greatly appreciate any advice here. Ask me questions if y'all want, too. I'm an openbook.
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