09-13-2012, 08:16 PM
I don't 'hit on' guys in general. I will occasionally flirt, but I pretty much leave it to other guys to signal their intent/interest.
As for hooking up, I have all of these rules and regulations to dating (dating as in dinner, movie not dating as in sex) which pretty much makes men jump through hoops, roll over, beg, play dead, etc before we even get to the bed some 30 days after the initial meeting.
While I may have found a few straight men attractive that is before I know what their inclinations are. Then its more or less 'Pity your straight' and I move on.
The closest I came to being emotionally involved with 'straight' was Bradley, who was 'bi' - he would have sex with guys but preferred relationships with the women-folk. He kept on insisting that he would love to be in a relationship with me, but I had this doubt saying that sooner than later he would get bored. Mind this was back in the day that I was still looking for 'until death do us part'.
I'm the type of person who is 'relationship' oriented. Thus my low record of only 8 men I have been with, two of which were part of my 2 week 'slut stage' where I tried the one night stand thing just to see if I liked it. No I didn't like it, I pretty much discovered that sex has to be connected to a lot of emotional crap and the confines of relationship in order to be satisfying for me.
Being relationship oriented pretty much takes straight man off the table, and bi sexual as well and even closeted man as you never know what will happen there or their real motivations.
Now I do find my Neighbor to be quite interesting, one can say I do covet my neighbors ass :biggrin: I do not covet his wife who I affectionately call 'The Banshee'.
Deuteronomy 5:21
Neither shalt thou desire thy neighbour's wife, neither shalt thou covet thy neighbour's house, his field, or his manservant, or his maidservant, his ox, or his ass, or any thing that is thy neighbour's.
However I would never approach him and suggest anything. But I do wish he would go around his property with the lawn mower preferably with his shirt off. :tongue:
As for hooking up, I have all of these rules and regulations to dating (dating as in dinner, movie not dating as in sex) which pretty much makes men jump through hoops, roll over, beg, play dead, etc before we even get to the bed some 30 days after the initial meeting.
While I may have found a few straight men attractive that is before I know what their inclinations are. Then its more or less 'Pity your straight' and I move on.
The closest I came to being emotionally involved with 'straight' was Bradley, who was 'bi' - he would have sex with guys but preferred relationships with the women-folk. He kept on insisting that he would love to be in a relationship with me, but I had this doubt saying that sooner than later he would get bored. Mind this was back in the day that I was still looking for 'until death do us part'.
I'm the type of person who is 'relationship' oriented. Thus my low record of only 8 men I have been with, two of which were part of my 2 week 'slut stage' where I tried the one night stand thing just to see if I liked it. No I didn't like it, I pretty much discovered that sex has to be connected to a lot of emotional crap and the confines of relationship in order to be satisfying for me.
Being relationship oriented pretty much takes straight man off the table, and bi sexual as well and even closeted man as you never know what will happen there or their real motivations.
Now I do find my Neighbor to be quite interesting, one can say I do covet my neighbors ass :biggrin: I do not covet his wife who I affectionately call 'The Banshee'.
Deuteronomy 5:21
Neither shalt thou desire thy neighbour's wife, neither shalt thou covet thy neighbour's house, his field, or his manservant, or his maidservant, his ox, or his ass, or any thing that is thy neighbour's.
However I would never approach him and suggest anything. But I do wish he would go around his property with the lawn mower preferably with his shirt off. :tongue:
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