what do you think about being virgin at 23 years old?

[nguyenkm]

I am still a virgin at 27, so don't feel too bad. I have never been kissed or ever gone out on a date. As a gay guy, I feel kind of bad about that, but that's just me.

I wonder myself if I ever will find the one. At the moment, I am not in a rush to go on a first date, but would love to go on one one day.

I admit that I would most likely go out on a date with a virgin first before dating someone who's not a virgin. That way, he wouldn't be disappointed in my inexperience, but if he wasn't one, I would come clean an ask him to go easy on me and teach me the ways.

I can be very hard on myself. I am not the sharpest tool in the shed, I don't have a six pack or guns, I am not tall. I am a nice person. I am shy at first, but I will open up once you get to know me.

My point: those of us who haven't had sex before - we just have to find that special someone to lose our virginity to first.

I'm 28 and a virgin too. Like you, I have never kissed, dated, or made love with any man.
To be honest, the word virgin bothers me a bit. I'm sure I can't use that word in real life but in this forum. It's because I'm not a woman, so I can't have a hymen penetrated to lose virginity. I'm not keen on anal sex either. All my sex dreams never involve that type of sex act.

For us gay men, to be a virgin means that never having anal sex, doesn't it?