10-05-2012, 02:07 AM
italianguy Wrote:thanks!
what do you think about saying, when you know a new guy ,"I've to say you one thing: I'm virgin"? For you I should say this thing or not?
I can't speak for guys, but as for me I'd like to know because it would be a defining moment and I'd want to make it special without being overwhelming (which might mean putting it off until later), and it's easier to overlook clumsiness and seeming thoughtlessness from someone so inexperienced, too. Of course this assumes we'd been together awhile and were in an actual relationship as well.
As for something like a one night stand...IDK how that would work out. Back when I experimented I wouldn't have cared, and would've been more careful not to freak you out. As for guys? I suppose some would find it a turn on while others (especially those who like their guys aggressive) might not. I suppose some might be insecure enough to feel "judged" by that and become defensive that ruins everything. But then I'd think many would love the fact their partner is presumably STD free.