Sex might end my relationship - please help!

[InbetweenDreams]

Well it is possible you still might be healing and while I'm not a doctor might never be the same, there's also the psychological effect. When you say it doesn't feel good are you still in pain? That might mean you're still not healed or something else is wrong.

I guess from my perspective and being single...not having sex I still feel that it is kind of a downer that your partner is more worried about having sex than allow you more time to heal.. I get it...sex is awesome but there's plenty more to a good relationship than just sex.

I am however, hesitant to tell you to leave. I definitely suggest for the sake of your health to abstain from bottoming until you're completely healed and are comfortable.