09-15-2016, 02:40 AM
Hey Axle, thanks for your response. It's not painful so much as it is tense. Because I'm expecting pain, I find it hard to relax and in turn that makes it painful.
For me sex has never really been a driver - I'm 25 and was a virgin up until 22... it's just never been something I've had to have - don't get me wrong, it's great, but not something I would risk either my health or emotions for what I feel is a fleeting release.
For my partner though, it's something he thinks is important. He's said to me we are like best friends, but feels as though the sex is missing and making him unhappy. My biggest priority in this is making sure we can both be happy in the long term - and I feel as though I'm unable to do that at this point.
For me sex has never really been a driver - I'm 25 and was a virgin up until 22... it's just never been something I've had to have - don't get me wrong, it's great, but not something I would risk either my health or emotions for what I feel is a fleeting release.
For my partner though, it's something he thinks is important. He's said to me we are like best friends, but feels as though the sex is missing and making him unhappy. My biggest priority in this is making sure we can both be happy in the long term - and I feel as though I'm unable to do that at this point.
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