09-15-2016, 03:39 AM
Going full on blunt......
1) He should have been patient and allowed you to heal FULLY from the burns. And YOU should have been open and honest about what progress (or lack of progress) was happening in that department.
2) Something tore. Severe fissure.
Are you guys using lube? Because it sounds like you need to be using a LOT more lube than however much you're using now.
3) You say you're trying again but not enjoying. Are you HEALED YET?? If not, then you both need to practice some patience until you are fully healed.
4) "he told me he isn't happy and he can't bear the idea of a relationship with no penetrative sex"
So.... this isn't a love relationship? And, either way, he should be able to deal with lack of penetrative sex at LEAST long enough to allow you to heal properly.
5) AGAIN. Let yourself HEAL FULLY inside. I'm serious. I can't stress this enough. You want to enjoy penetration again? You have to be fully healed or you'll just make it worse. And if he doesn't have that kind of patience then he's not worth holding onto anyway. His first concern shouldn't be if he can stick his dick in you, but rather about your health.
6) IF after a complete examination that clears you health-wise (not just STIs, but also that you are fully healed on the inside), and you still aren't enjoying it? I agree counseling is a good idea.
But, really? I think you BOTH need it. Together. Because you both should be more concerned with your health than about whose dick can be shoved where whenever he wants.
1) He should have been patient and allowed you to heal FULLY from the burns. And YOU should have been open and honest about what progress (or lack of progress) was happening in that department.
2) Something tore. Severe fissure.
Are you guys using lube? Because it sounds like you need to be using a LOT more lube than however much you're using now.
3) You say you're trying again but not enjoying. Are you HEALED YET?? If not, then you both need to practice some patience until you are fully healed.
4) "he told me he isn't happy and he can't bear the idea of a relationship with no penetrative sex"
So.... this isn't a love relationship? And, either way, he should be able to deal with lack of penetrative sex at LEAST long enough to allow you to heal properly.
5) AGAIN. Let yourself HEAL FULLY inside. I'm serious. I can't stress this enough. You want to enjoy penetration again? You have to be fully healed or you'll just make it worse. And if he doesn't have that kind of patience then he's not worth holding onto anyway. His first concern shouldn't be if he can stick his dick in you, but rather about your health.
6) IF after a complete examination that clears you health-wise (not just STIs, but also that you are fully healed on the inside), and you still aren't enjoying it? I agree counseling is a good idea.
But, really? I think you BOTH need it. Together. Because you both should be more concerned with your health than about whose dick can be shoved where whenever he wants.
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