Leo
09-15-2016, 11:54 AM
It sounds like you're not really a sexual person to begin with, some people just aren't all bonkers about sex. That's ok. I think [MENTION=20738]TwisttheLeaf[/MENTION] 's raised all good points. I think if a boyfriend can't handle not having sex to me raises some serious questions about the relationship...
LIke I said in my post might sound kind of one sided since I'm single and I therefore have no sex, I don't do one night stands or feel the need to (although at time I feel that I want to, then I jerk off and don't care anymore). It just doesn't sound like he's thinking about the long haul and being a bit selfish.
On the other hand you definitely need to be healed, you definitely need to be relaxed and definitely need to be using more lube. The only way to be relaxed is to be comfortable and be sure that you're healed and get there by trying things like [MENTION=22948]TigerLover[/MENTION] mentioned.
What I will say is I am a little concerned about your bf and him having this big issue with lack of sex, to me that's a big red flag.
In hindsight brings the relevance to the other thread about this guy's bf testing him with not having sex for a month. I don't think many guys think about the possibility of not having sex with their boyfriend. Me...there many many things I'd do to "get my kicks" besides sex with my partner, I mean if you ask me anal is just one thing, oral is another thing...
One question I wonder, how often did you two have sex?
LIke I said in my post might sound kind of one sided since I'm single and I therefore have no sex, I don't do one night stands or feel the need to (although at time I feel that I want to, then I jerk off and don't care anymore). It just doesn't sound like he's thinking about the long haul and being a bit selfish.
On the other hand you definitely need to be healed, you definitely need to be relaxed and definitely need to be using more lube. The only way to be relaxed is to be comfortable and be sure that you're healed and get there by trying things like [MENTION=22948]TigerLover[/MENTION] mentioned.
What I will say is I am a little concerned about your bf and him having this big issue with lack of sex, to me that's a big red flag.
In hindsight brings the relevance to the other thread about this guy's bf testing him with not having sex for a month. I don't think many guys think about the possibility of not having sex with their boyfriend. Me...there many many things I'd do to "get my kicks" besides sex with my partner, I mean if you ask me anal is just one thing, oral is another thing...
One question I wonder, how often did you two have sex?
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