Sex might end my relationship - please help!

[Gideon]

The fact that he doesn't care enough about your welfare to put your safety and well being above his own pleasure just spells S-E-L-F-I-S-H. I mean seriously, all the rest aside, this much, for me would be a huge red flag. That you were not only infected but damaged and he -still- pressures you...gives you an ultimatum in fact to perform? Yeah man, I'd say it's probably time to move on.

Or time for him to appreciate you enough to start putting you first at least some of the time.

I am in love with Twist....with or without sex, I'm still in love with him. And I've had it both ways. Doesn't change how I feel, doesn't change that he comes first and his safety comes before EITHER of our pleasure.