09-15-2016, 06:31 PM
Would it be feasible and thinkable to get into intercrural sex instead of penetrative? There is such a thing, and it seems to give some gays, who don't like anal sex or the idea of anal sex, the right sort of pleasure.
Much else has been offered, [MENTION=20888]rroepcke[/MENTION], as advice, so I won't second what others have said; I am a little surprised, though, that your partner did not see what a big issue your health is, and why you need to preserve yourself (and by that, he would be preserving himself too).
Dare I say that, since you've worded these qualms so well to us, you just use the same ideas to have that serious talk with him. You might even bring up the idea of the open relationship. Let him tell you that he's not interested in that kind of relationship, in which case he will need to learn patience, and / or other ways of making love to you.
Much else has been offered, [MENTION=20888]rroepcke[/MENTION], as advice, so I won't second what others have said; I am a little surprised, though, that your partner did not see what a big issue your health is, and why you need to preserve yourself (and by that, he would be preserving himself too).
Dare I say that, since you've worded these qualms so well to us, you just use the same ideas to have that serious talk with him. You might even bring up the idea of the open relationship. Let him tell you that he's not interested in that kind of relationship, in which case he will need to learn patience, and / or other ways of making love to you.
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