Sex might end my relationship - please help!

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Thanks [MENTION=1766]princealbertofb[/MENTION]. I decided to bring it up because whenever I decline sex he tends to shut me out - until I ask what is wrong or what he's feeling. Instead of copying the same routine I thought it might be time for him to hear what I'm feeling. I sound like I may have been blunt, but did approach it with tact and respect.

I tried to hug him and give him a kiss before I left the room. I just don't think he wants a bar of it (sorry if that last sentence makes no sense...could be an Aussie saying). And is very much wrapped up in his own thoughts at the moment.