10-07-2016, 09:10 AM
I can kinda relate with parts.
I absolutely identify as a man, but I often question whether my sexuality is the same as the most parts of the gay and straight "community", which I have issues with connecting to as well.
Most of the times, I don't have the desire to have sex with anyone. What attracts me to (exclusively) men though is mostly of a very emotional nature. I have a very high desire to hug and cuddle, but since most guys expect sex, I don't go anywhere, cos I look at sex as a "necessary evil" in order to get the cuddles and hugs.
I can find quite a lot of guys sexually attractive, but the amount of guys that really make me wanna have actual sex with is very, very small. Kinda is a part of why I'm still alone.
I absolutely identify as a man, but I often question whether my sexuality is the same as the most parts of the gay and straight "community", which I have issues with connecting to as well.
Most of the times, I don't have the desire to have sex with anyone. What attracts me to (exclusively) men though is mostly of a very emotional nature. I have a very high desire to hug and cuddle, but since most guys expect sex, I don't go anywhere, cos I look at sex as a "necessary evil" in order to get the cuddles and hugs.
I can find quite a lot of guys sexually attractive, but the amount of guys that really make me wanna have actual sex with is very, very small. Kinda is a part of why I'm still alone.