Gender Identity and Sexuality

[Dreamer]

Do whatever makes you happy.

Me personally, I have to agree to disagree with you though. I sometimes question why I am stuck being a guy. I'm not really that masculine, I feel I would be happier and it would make more sense if I were a woman and I could get away with most of the shit I say and do. But it just doesn't work like that. I don't have gender dysphoria, so I"m a guy. I used to feel I was gender fluid and non binary, but those terms are silly and nobody outside the LGBT circle, even some people within the LGBT community don't know what those terms mean. To me there are men and women. That's it. . Whether they are cisgender or transgender.

No I'm a guy. You're either male or female. Cisgender or trans. There are no gender binary, genderqueer, genderfluid. No.

I'm a guy. I recently cut my hair short unfortunately, but it will grow back.

But over the past years off and on, it was shoulder length. I would and still gender bend and crossdress and experiment with makeup. People would actually mistake me for female at grocery stores and at cafes.

I would sometimes play along with it. I never said I was female, so I'm not tricking anybody.

I'm of course fem as you guys know.

But above all of that I'm still a guy. Sorry. There are times I did wish I had gender dysphoria and could be a woman, and I wouldn't have to deal with societies pressure of being a feminine gay man, but no. God made me a guy, so.

Keep in mind that that's your personal history, not mine. Labels have no purpose to you, and you're a femine gay man. That's cool, but I'm not. I'm pretty masculine, and don't find that "masculine" or "feminine" (created by society and time) holds any importance when it comes to gender.

I'm finding myself out. Don't care for cross-dressing or wearing make-up.. and I don't believe in God, so again: your life experience, not mine.

Cross dressing and being feminine have nothing to do with me not identifying with either gender... my predicament, not yours... social pressure doesn't hold any meaning, in regards to my not identifying with birth gender. I don't like my genitals, or the rest of my body. Something I've struggled with before I had a sexuality, as a child. Don't belittle my struggle to your limited comprehension.

I love how you follow a "Whatever makes you happy" with a failed attempt of totally deconstructing, mocking, and denying the existence of my personal struggles against your opinions; How I choose to identify is not for you to decide.

Also, I could easily use the god argument to deny the existence of homosexuality, but that's ignorant, so don't do it to me.

You said you're "a guy", not someone who struggles with gender dysphoria; so aside from your ignorant comments, that's enough to cancel out your opinion on trans issues, let alone your denial of my relating to neither female or male genders.