09-30-2010, 11:49 PM
Hi and Welcome :-)
As first after I read your post I´ve seen that you signed in as a "single Bi man".... So it seem that you have already decided. :-)
I think at the moment you should not rush ... wait... maybe your feelings get a bit more clear. The fact that you want to have a heterosexual relationship and to have kids ... is a wish ... but as long as you don´t know what your feelings want it can be very easy to decide wrong.
Test youself ... read here ... read the net ... go out .. meet friends... get some new friends .. heterosexual, bisexual and gay .... I think this could help to find your way and what you want ... How you want to live....
You´re young.. you have no reason to decide really fast. Take the time you need now ... not in a couple of years...its better to wait ... as to wake up some day in future and ask yourself "what I´m doing here ?"
As first after I read your post I´ve seen that you signed in as a "single Bi man".... So it seem that you have already decided. :-)
I think at the moment you should not rush ... wait... maybe your feelings get a bit more clear. The fact that you want to have a heterosexual relationship and to have kids ... is a wish ... but as long as you don´t know what your feelings want it can be very easy to decide wrong.
Test youself ... read here ... read the net ... go out .. meet friends... get some new friends .. heterosexual, bisexual and gay .... I think this could help to find your way and what you want ... How you want to live....
You´re young.. you have no reason to decide really fast. Take the time you need now ... not in a couple of years...its better to wait ... as to wake up some day in future and ask yourself "what I´m doing here ?"