10-06-2010, 08:27 PM
You can be in a straight relationship and be "not feeling it" and still be straight. i would re - evaluate this relationship, for starters, and find out why its not making your clock tick. I was confused for a long time. I started out straight, thought i was gay, refused to accept it and thought i was straight again, then allowed that i must be at least a little bi, before i finally realized, at the end of the day, when i closed my eyes and dreamed of the one i wanted to fall asleep with, it was a man that i saw holding me in his arms. I definitely agree with several of the earlier post advising you to not be to quick to label yourself. However, when you finally figure it out, don't shy away. There may be two voices prompting you (as was the case with me), your head and your heart and it is your heart that you need to follow in this matter.