Unsure of my sexuality

[princealbertofb]

U didn't tell us , for whom u had feelings, the boy or the girl, i confess that i'm 24 and still not sure of my sexuality, i fell in love for the first time with a boy, even though i had long term relationships with girls, i never had feelings for girls so i don't know what that means, i think u are bi, but u don't have too much experience so who knows? u must see for yourself what makes u happy.

It IS true that it's difficult to find out what one's preferences are, because there is strong social and family pressure to be "with someone", to be paired off (why! in some cultures they'll marry you off in the crib!! :eek, and by that, families and relatives usually mean someone of the opposite sex. They rarely think: "Oh, wait, maybe you'd prefer to have a boyfriend (if you're a boy)! or a girlfriend (if you're a girl)!". That's why, maybe, it makes it harder for us to discover our true selves. Being with a female partner feels right socially, for a man because we have been conditioned to think that that's the thing for everyone, including ourselved, but it may not work out in the long run. Best not to make that mistake, as someone (Fenris) so rightly said... mile: