01-04-2011, 09:16 AM
That just seems.....a little shallow....maybe I'm just thinking about it wrongly.
You could try going to the gym with him, or buying something to work out with at home. That way he has more motivation/encouragement.
If it's gone to his cheeks then working out isn't going to effect it much I believe that is more of a dietary concern.
Withholding sex would actually seem somewhat appropriate though, if you really aren't attracted to him anymore, you wouldn't want to do it anyway?
You could try going to the gym with him, or buying something to work out with at home. That way he has more motivation/encouragement.
If it's gone to his cheeks then working out isn't going to effect it much I believe that is more of a dietary concern.
Withholding sex would actually seem somewhat appropriate though, if you really aren't attracted to him anymore, you wouldn't want to do it anyway?