01-04-2011, 10:48 AM
I am in the middle on this one...I think you love him but I think you need to ask yourself what love means to you...it is clear that you do not have unconditional love. Trying to get him to lose weight might be damaging to both of you. If you can't get past the weight...and I am not blaming you if you can't because it is what it is and at least you are being honest about it....I think you should leave sooner than later before you do any unintentional serious damage to his or your own psyche. We all have dealbreakers...maybe that is yours? I wish you luck.