01-18-2011, 07:34 PM
I understand you completely. It is horrible to have a partner that no matter how horny you are turns you off when you see him naked. And the bad thing is that you can't do much about it.
That said, almost sounds like he decided to just have a comfortable lazy life off you. Look at it, he has a hot young lover, free housing, food, etc. And has to do nothing for it. Just make him get off his ass. For example, say you aren't making enough money and send him out as a door to door salesman, that would require a lot of walking and would help him get in better shape but also feel better about himself, have more purpose in life, and feel he is bringing something to the household, even if he's not making much!
That said, almost sounds like he decided to just have a comfortable lazy life off you. Look at it, he has a hot young lover, free housing, food, etc. And has to do nothing for it. Just make him get off his ass. For example, say you aren't making enough money and send him out as a door to door salesman, that would require a lot of walking and would help him get in better shape but also feel better about himself, have more purpose in life, and feel he is bringing something to the household, even if he's not making much!