Partner gained Weight

[inspiron1721]

as someone who's put on a substancial weight gain after being with my partner for many year's i can honestly say that he's put on weight for one of two reason's or both even. he's become really comfortable with you and feel's you will love him no matter what so he's comfortable to have let himself go....or he's unsatisfied with something in his life. if his weight gain really bothers you i would suggest doing more active things and making him come along. this way it's not so personal but he's still being more active. if he's unhappy about something in his life help him work through his unhappiness and the weight will come off effortlessly. goodluck...and as a overweight person i don't even think you are being vain....it just is what it is...we all have different attractions.