Partner gained Weight

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He blamed you for things because you hurt his ego. Man is ego is huge. And the best way to defend is attack. We are all like that.
A relationship can only work if it contains understanding and forgiving.
I agree with you that is wrong for your partner to just sit down, gain weight, and live off your hard work.
But it 's not right for you to have the thought that you will leave him for the weights that he gains.

Also, try to wear your partner's shoes before judging him. Ask yourself the question, if you are fat, you are insecure about your life, would you want to go out to face the world? Would you be able to stand it if everyone at the gym laughs at your fat belly? Maybe that way, you will understand your partner feeling more. Try to make him put on your shoes also. Ask him what he thinks about your life, your feeling.


It takes courage to adapt to new thing. I hope you and your partner have courage to face this whole crisis. If you guys can pass this difficult stage, your relationship will evolve into a whole new level, I believe so.