Partner gained Weight

[borrein]

Forgive me, but your pretty damn shallow mate. My partner is over 400 pounds and I still love him as ever. You need to communicate better, youngin's like yourself need to realize communication takes two. Converse with each other about the other's feelings, work things through and get things through. If you're going to dump him for having a little weight gain, you didn't love him to begin with, you just lusted after him. Another common misconception with young people is the difference between "love" and "Lust".

I agree he should get off his tailside and work a little bit, even if his "job" is to just go to the gym every so often, I agree, he should do something. Weight however should not be the deciding factor in a relationship. He's probably better without you.

If he didn't have you, he'd
1). Have to get off his ass and do things to support himself.
2). Won't have to worry about someone who is discriminate against a little weight.
3). Will probably be able to get over his depression (sounds like he's depressed)

Him not having you will get him to better his own life. Plus he wouldn't have to worry about a shallow person.