Partner gained Weight

[Roder51]

I tend to agree with JoeyJOjo. You seem shallow and too materialistic. Ask yourself what your priorities really are. He gained 15 pounds? No need to be alarmed. Seems he is in a country where language is a barrier. Why bring someone you love into that scenario? I don't get it. It sounds you are the problem and not totally him. He is at fault in that he's not done a lot to remedy the situation but you are more at fault for allowing this to happen. Sorry! One last thing. If you truly love this man a little weight gain depression and lack of trying will not change it. What He is experiencing needs some spiritual support and no it does not start in the bedroom. There's a lot of support on this thread so if you want to spend the rest of your life with this man I suggest you follow some of the advice given. I wish you many years of joy and prosperity but only you can make that possible.

Just read the opening post to the thread. Boy did I misunderstand some things in it. I understood that He was moving to a country where He could not understand the language. I musta been real tired earlier today when I read it. So sorry. Please forgive some of the opinion above. Cheers