01-05-2011, 11:45 PM
Hello NorCalGuy and 
to GaySpeak. I'm very sorry to hear that you are so upset and still hurting from the breakup. As has been mentioned before, it would be good to be able to focus on other things in your life, but it's probably also a good thing that you a grieving over the breakup. All of this sounds very sudden for you, and there is a period of "mourning" to go through with the death of this dream.
I suppose the best thing you can do, apart from taking drugs (maybe some mild anti depressants might be a good idea: ask your doctor) is to stick around the boards and tell us how you feel. Keeping it all bottled up is definitely not a good idea. I agree with Marshlander that your ex seemed to have planned it a bit ahead. Did he give any reason for the breakup? Did you see it coming?
Good luck with getting through this.
to GaySpeak. I'm very sorry to hear that you are so upset and still hurting from the breakup. As has been mentioned before, it would be good to be able to focus on other things in your life, but it's probably also a good thing that you a grieving over the breakup. All of this sounds very sudden for you, and there is a period of "mourning" to go through with the death of this dream. I suppose the best thing you can do, apart from taking drugs (maybe some mild anti depressants might be a good idea: ask your doctor) is to stick around the boards and tell us how you feel. Keeping it all bottled up is definitely not a good idea. I agree with Marshlander that your ex seemed to have planned it a bit ahead. Did he give any reason for the breakup? Did you see it coming?
Good luck with getting through this.
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