Should he move?

[Kodon]

Thanks, everyone, for the replies.
It's my opinion as well that he's moving waaaay to quickly with this guy, but then again, I'm the one who takes forever to even think about getting serious with someone. Guess you could call me "old fashioned"... haha

My biggest concern for him, is that he'll get there, (heaven forbid) something goes wrong, and he's up s**t's creek without a paddle. The ONLY person he'll know there is his bf, and if that takes a turn for the worst, then he's pretty much screwed.

I'll be hanging out with him later tonight after he gets off work, and I'll tell him to think REALLY carefully about his decision to go, and ask if he has any type of backup plan just in case something goes wrong. Hopefully he'll understand where I'm coming from, but if he doesn't then yes -- perhaps he DOES have to learn the hard way.

Thanks again guys. I'll let you's know how it goes.