I say I'm a lesbian but...

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I say I'm a lesbian and for the most part its true but there is this one guy who I would always go back to. does that make me a liar or am i right to just say yeah i'm a lesbian?

I am actually bi, but I call myself gay because I have only looked for relationships with guys since I came out. I agree with others here. I think the label part is only for convenience. If you feel dishonest about calling yourself a lesbian, than call yourself bi, if that makes you feel more honest. I think being true to yourself so you don't feel like you are hiding anything or telling a lie that is the most important thing. I think most people who have come out would agree that the honesty thing was a big part of it for them, even if there were other factors.
Good luckmile: