12-23-2011, 01:56 AM
One way some women flirt with guys without putting out a sexual vibe is asking for help (it can be something real minor, too, anything) or advice and showing friendliness and gratitude for it, and talking or meeting later afterwards.
Of course this doesn't always work at keeping sex (as opposed to LTR) out of the equation, and I think many men feel pressured to be aggressive sexually even when they may not actually feel like it. Also, fair warning, there are men who feel that if they do anything for you (even just buy you a coke) that you "owe" them and may cause trouble or even sexually assault you if you say no.
Of course this doesn't always work at keeping sex (as opposed to LTR) out of the equation, and I think many men feel pressured to be aggressive sexually even when they may not actually feel like it. Also, fair warning, there are men who feel that if they do anything for you (even just buy you a coke) that you "owe" them and may cause trouble or even sexually assault you if you say no.