Need Some Advise (Damn you naughty thoughts) >_<

[LateBloomer]

Ok so i work with a guy friend at boy's and girl's club. I volunteer and he works.

I've know him for years BUT now I've kind of got a school girl crush on him.

he gives me hugs and but grabs kind of playfully when the kids are around but when there not what he dose seems less playful and has more of a meaning behind it, but he could just be messen around.

And all this stuff he started first,now i just hug him back (unfortunately i regret not taken a squeeze of that nice ass of his)

But their is a twist I've only heard that he dates women (and he is in a relationship now) which makes me think his just kidding.

But even another twist. a while ago on facebook he did this app where you answer all kinds of random questions about your facebook friends and other friends can't see it. ( a friend thinks you like blue est.) But they must do like a few surveys or something like that to see who answered the question.

Well the question was if i should come out of the closet and he said yes ( i haven't told him I'm gay)

Now i don't know if all this is just playen around and kidding or if he thinks im gay and his serious. I hope its the second one

I could really use some advise if some like this has happened to you thanks

Disclaimer: Everything I write after this assumes we DON'T know if he's really in a relationship or not.

Because, if he's in a relationship, then you pretty much have to consider him "off the market" and everything else is just flirting (which can be playful, but sort of manipulative too, if he's playing with your feelings).

Either way, a little humor can really help "break the ice". You might try just joking around with him about hearing people say that he's in a relationship.

Something like, "Man, if you weren't already spoken for, I'd be all over you like white on rice!"

...or something cheesy like that...


If he *is* committed to someone else, well, he won't take your bait. But if he's not, and he's interested, who knows? You might have him hook, line and sinker.

Good luck.