12-31-2011, 08:42 PM
pellaz Wrote:lacking details, maybe a good, but if you are out i bet your volunteering days are numbered. I realy think, in the long run, its best to be truthful. You have to do what you think is the best for yourself and not for someone else.
the gay population is tiny (~3-8%) so why should this friend be gay? dont be the lazy gay, there are plenty of fish, toss this one back for a while. Hang around and see what happens but i bet he is not gay. Wait will he brakes up with his current bow and make the move.
sorry to be negative.
I would have to second these thoughts. Risking your standing as a volunteer for something that is playful and likely no more than curiosity is not worth it. I say the right guy is out there, just keep looking. If this guy really wants you, he'll make a real move.