01-07-2012, 08:58 AM
Recently your friend has been 'needful' this has sent your relationship into a new dynamic, calling upon the desire to protect/defend/take care of her that did not exist before.
Can you honestly assess yourself? Can you look at the past decade or so of your life and tell yourself that these are new emotions - feelings you have not had for other women?
Or has there been this half hidden, half buried side to you that you have been hiding from?
If No - never felt this way for another woman, then its your protective self attempting to be more of a support system for her than homosexuality.
If yes, then you are either bi or gay.
I can not tell you, no one else can. We do not know your emotional history, we have no idea what other feelings have been present in this and similar situations.
Can you honestly assess yourself? Can you look at the past decade or so of your life and tell yourself that these are new emotions - feelings you have not had for other women?
Or has there been this half hidden, half buried side to you that you have been hiding from?
If No - never felt this way for another woman, then its your protective self attempting to be more of a support system for her than homosexuality.
If yes, then you are either bi or gay.
I can not tell you, no one else can. We do not know your emotional history, we have no idea what other feelings have been present in this and similar situations.
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