I guess its my turn to intro myself

[pellaz]

first off welcome to gaySpeak.com

I'm an acting major at school and I'm surrounded by girls and effeminate guys. I try to flirt with all of the girls I can,

Flirt with some guys and get back to us? Just be honest with whatever, in saying your not to sure.
-gay or straight; relationships are mostly the same.
-"effeminate guys" straight or gay can tell you a lot about rejection and friendship. Dont under estimate what they bring to the table as a friend or lover.

... For some reason, I still feel the need to be "that" guy who all the girls love, but I think its time for me to do something for me, and get the courage to try something outside the norm.

To save my life i could not get a straight date most of my existence. As a gay man, ladies seem more interested. ??Maybe because:
-they know i am not interested, i have a partner.
-am I more confidant?
-i let myself be a lot more campy in public now and we are watching the same ass walking ahead.

i have girl friends, go out with them, enjoy their friendship. Especially value their opinions.