Nick9 Wrote:I am so sorry to hear that Indi.
Why can't so many people have SEVERAL friends? I mean, why would you want to break all ties when you find someone new?
I think that maybe you two were too desperate and too eager to find the perfect guy. He was probably talking to several guys at the same time and picked ONE.
You wanted Mr. Right too and you started to fall for him too soon, where there was a flicker of hope that he could be nice guy.
Considering you to met at dating website, it is probably understandable.
I know that the process of finding Mr.Right can be hard and painful. But it seems to me that we are making it even more difficult by concentrating on finding JUST THE ONE person.
One should not leave his old friend for a new one. It's like you take a bite of a cookie and when it is not perfect, you set it aside and reach for another one. It makes me sad how many broken people is left there in this search.
Maybe you can wait some time, then get to him again, saying that you have maybe met someone, but you still miss your previous long talks. Maybe he'll start talking again.
I am surely hurt, but, not as much as to call him ever again. This person, if was so unsure about me, or didnt want to speak to me, could have easily ignored till i had dropped. He just snapped and left me aghast. He didnt evn give a clue. In neither of the conversations, he mentioned that maybe i was bothering him, or he disliked me, as if he did, i wouldnt have ever called him as i dont belong to the category of people who will run after people without getting nothing in return. I guess, this guy, although seems to be intelligent, and mature, is little immature as far as the matters of relationship are concerned. He just behaved so immature as he could have just ignored me easily than just snapping at me. I repect his thinking as i believe every person has his/her own list of desirables, but, Why wouldnt he just say that there was nothing compatible. I was just expecting to be friends with him to be honest, although i liked him a lot, but, i didnt want the things to end this way. I am sure this guy had too much going on in his mind when i was talking to him Now, he is gone, really gone forever, i am not going to get back to him ever. Forget it!!
And trust me, i am just gonna enjoy every moment of life, whatever it gives me. If people wanna hook up, i will for sure without expecting any damn thing in return. I am sorry to be ranting.