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Is my friend gay, bi, or curious and into me?
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*feel free to skim if it's too long

I'm 17 and my friend is 16, we're both guys, go to same school, and swim for the same team yr round. Were both tall and really athletic. I'm gay (I think), in the closet, and have been IN LOVE with this guy for a few months now but don't know what to do.
We sometimes hang out on the weekends (sometimes just us) and I'll sleepover his house or he at mine. We go to the movies and out to dinner and mall--often we do this with a couple others too, like sit by ourselves next to eachother at the movies but neither of us have really made a move yet. He's really cocky but can be really nice to me too (admires how smart, hardworking, and fast I am), but he also uses "gay" in a bad way, and loves to tease me and call me gay cause he thinks it makes me stressed and finds that amusing. But he reminds me he's joking when it gets to me.
He has said Im hot and told me he wants me in his ***hole, but brushes it off as a joke. He slaps my a** A LOT, and I know this is a straight guy joke. I do reciprocate but to a minimal extent.
Hes never had a gf before, but talks bout certain girls often and one time chose to go to a small party where this girl would be instead of hanging with me th next day. He stares at me A LOT and just laughs and smiles. Always has a huge smile when talking to me. Can be very touchy (even if its in a nonsexual way) and likes to 'fight' and argue with me. He likes to grab my feet when he swims behind me. He texts (at least once a day) and calls me often...sometimes we can talk on the phone for half hr at a time bout random ****, but not recently. People have commented on how they love how we argue so much / have told us to stop flirting (jokes?).
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#2
Haven't I answered this one before ?
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#3
It looks very familiar to me aswell
Sometimes you need a bit of chaos in your life to be able to shrug off pitiful disdain about something meaningless.
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#4
Yes, the same question was posted 2 weeks ago.

Bryan, check the other thread you created 2 weeks ago, there are several good answers already about this exact same question, you aren't going to get any different answers and it is bad manners to post the same thread twice.
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#5
i cannot find the other thread, but here are my thought on this matter. he is so into you. and already making initiations, my advice-start teasing him and after that say the thing he says to you, that you are just messing around, joking,who knows u might get a reaction from him, pleasing one
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#6
Sounds pretty gay to me. Really pretty gay. Really.
As for what to do..... Have him stay over and take a shower "accidentally" leaving the door open. When you get out be rather haphazard with the towel... And just hangout in it (guys do that, anyways)
Just pay attention. That should tell you a lot... I guess.
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