Is my friend gay, bi, or curious and into me?
03-10-2012, 11:40 PM
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I'm 17 and my friend is 16, we're both guys, go to same school, and swim for the same team yr round. Were both tall and really athletic. I'm gay (I think), in the closet, and have been IN LOVE with this guy for a few months now but don't know what to do.
We sometimes hang out on the weekends (sometimes just us) and I'll sleepover his house or he at mine. We go to the movies and out to dinner and mall--often we do this with a couple others too, like sit by ourselves next to eachother at the movies but neither of us have really made a move yet. He's really cocky but can be really nice to me too (admires how smart, hardworking, and fast I am), but he also uses "gay" in a bad way, and loves to tease me and call me gay cause he thinks it makes me stressed and finds that amusing. But he reminds me he's joking when it gets to me.
He has said Im hot and told me he wants me in his ***hole, but brushes it off as a joke. He slaps my a** A LOT, and I know this is a straight guy joke. I do reciprocate but to a minimal extent.
Hes never had a gf before, but talks bout certain girls often and one time chose to go to a small party where this girl would be instead of hanging with me th next day. He stares at me A LOT and just laughs and smiles. Always has a huge smile when talking to me. Can be very touchy (even if its in a nonsexual way) and likes to 'fight' and argue with me. He likes to grab my feet when he swims behind me. He texts (at least once a day) and calls me often...sometimes we can talk on the phone for half hr at a time bout random ****, but not recently. People have commented on how they love how we argue so much / have told us to stop flirting (jokes?).
I'm 17 and my friend is 16, we're both guys, go to same school, and swim for the same team yr round. Were both tall and really athletic. I'm gay (I think), in the closet, and have been IN LOVE with this guy for a few months now but don't know what to do.
We sometimes hang out on the weekends (sometimes just us) and I'll sleepover his house or he at mine. We go to the movies and out to dinner and mall--often we do this with a couple others too, like sit by ourselves next to eachother at the movies but neither of us have really made a move yet. He's really cocky but can be really nice to me too (admires how smart, hardworking, and fast I am), but he also uses "gay" in a bad way, and loves to tease me and call me gay cause he thinks it makes me stressed and finds that amusing. But he reminds me he's joking when it gets to me.
He has said Im hot and told me he wants me in his ***hole, but brushes it off as a joke. He slaps my a** A LOT, and I know this is a straight guy joke. I do reciprocate but to a minimal extent.
Hes never had a gf before, but talks bout certain girls often and one time chose to go to a small party where this girl would be instead of hanging with me th next day. He stares at me A LOT and just laughs and smiles. Always has a huge smile when talking to me. Can be very touchy (even if its in a nonsexual way) and likes to 'fight' and argue with me. He likes to grab my feet when he swims behind me. He texts (at least once a day) and calls me often...sometimes we can talk on the phone for half hr at a time bout random ****, but not recently. People have commented on how they love how we argue so much / have told us to stop flirting (jokes?).
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