06-21-2012, 10:47 PM
Arch, I guess this was ripe for the picking. It was going to happen some day. So well as you might wish it hadn't come out, it was a cloud waiting to burst.
Be thankful that the milk is spilt now and let's try and help you mop up the mess... All you need to do now, is acknowledge your mistake, and forgive yourself for not knowing any better (but then WHO knew?? You certainly didn't realise it was ok to be gay, did you?) and move on, milk another cow, fill your jug again, this time with the right product (but please handle with care, lol ).
The very best of luck, and courage in these coming days, weeks, months. The journey may well feel like a rollercoaster but it'll work itself out. Time is a great healer.
Apart from the pastor, is there any other friend (male or female) in whom you could confide, or who could bring you their support? You might need it.
Remember that we're always here to help, as we can, from a distance.
Take care,
Be thankful that the milk is spilt now and let's try and help you mop up the mess... All you need to do now, is acknowledge your mistake, and forgive yourself for not knowing any better (but then WHO knew?? You certainly didn't realise it was ok to be gay, did you?) and move on, milk another cow, fill your jug again, this time with the right product (but please handle with care, lol ).
The very best of luck, and courage in these coming days, weeks, months. The journey may well feel like a rollercoaster but it'll work itself out. Time is a great healer.
Apart from the pastor, is there any other friend (male or female) in whom you could confide, or who could bring you their support? You might need it.
Remember that we're always here to help, as we can, from a distance.
Take care,