I am doing something wrong?

[Alwaysconfused]

I honestly do not know why, but people tend to run off on me w/out a word. I do not pressure them or talk about relationships too soon. I like to plan things in advance, I usually see him once a week, which isn't asking to much. and last week he agrreed to hangingout again and he was the one who started the conversation the most last week. So why isn't he talking to me now? did he lose interest?

[BeautifulBlue]

Does he have something going on?

The best piece of advice I've ever been given is this: People respond to you based on the way THEY are, not the way YOU are.

So... if people are running off on you, it's most likely because of something THEY are doing, not because something YOU are doing.

[Alwaysconfused]

I guess people are busier than me because, my job doesn't give me a lot of hours so I have too much free time which I occupy myself. But Should I just give up on them? I'm tired of starting over and over again. I want to give them the benifit of a doubt. He is online where we met and I so am I but only because I felt like he doesn't want anything to do with me. And maybe thats why he's on adam4adam right now.